Harlembutherfly, 39
currently offline
New York City, NY, USA
HARLEMBUTHERFLY'S MEMBERSHIP AWARDS (Beta)



Are you that extraordinary someone that can be my true frie
Are you that extraordinary someone that can be my true friend? I know you all might have heard it all before But to tell the truth, I am one of a kind (do not get me wrong we all are) but my individuality is what makes me so distinctive. I am not the type to follow behind the next person; friend or not. I am also not the type to stay on top of all what is hot and in gossip with the media. I am the type who is 100 percent honest in all my interactions, I do have steadfast approach to my character, and I strive for success and leave all that fabrication in the wind where it belongs. I am the spiritual type. I believe in energy and the penetration in which it flows. I share the love of nature with the universe. I am the type that loves to observe my surroundings and put my focus on what is true and real. With that said, I embrace my personality with the confidence that In who I am now and who I am striving to become in the future is in which Male individual in who I seek.
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'06"
Weight
160 lbs
Body Type
thick
Movies
romantic comedy, comedy, drama, action, romance
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
post-Graduate, college grad
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Clerical / Administrative, Entertainment / Media, Hospitality / Travel, Sales / Marketing, Food Service
Income level
$50,000-$100,000, $25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
420
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
flirt, social butterfly, home body
Political Views
progressive, not interested in politics, socialist, democrat
Food Related
Soul Food
Personality
fashionista, lover, extrovert, flirt, romantic, intellectual
Religious Views
Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
travel companion, dating, the yin to my yang, romance, relationship, soulmate, conversation, fun
My Sign
virgo : aug. 23-sept. 22
Gender
Female
Fitness & Sports
working out
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
cooking & recipes, cycling, movies, music, photography, reading, running, shopping, sports, swimming, travel, working out, yoga
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, fit
Movies
action, comedy, drama, romance, romantic comedy
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
blue, brown, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, black, dark brown
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Hispanic / Latino, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American
Relationship
divorced, off the market, just here for friends, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000, that's private
Do they smoke?
420, no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
no, socially
They currently live
alone, with kids
Socially, they are
comic relief, flirt, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, social butterfly
Political Views
democrat, independent, liberal, not interested in politics, progressive
Food Related
Comfort, Fine Dining, French, Gluten-free Diet, Italian, Japanese, Soul Food, Spicy, Vegetarian
Personality
extrovert, fashionista, flirt, lover, professional, romantic
Individuality
beard, goatee, stache
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, penpal, relationship, romance, roommate, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
Gender
Male
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